Get Your Confidence (and Cool) Back: How to Dress Like You Again!

Somewhere between raising kids, climbing the career ladder, and just trying to stay afloat, your wardrobe might’ve quietly stopped feeling like you. The edgy, creative woman who used to rock vintage finds and handmade accessories got replaced by “whatever’s clean and fits.”

But here’s the truth - confidence doesn’t come from buying more clothes. It comes from loving the ones you do wear. And the easiest way to start getting your groove (and your cool) back? Start swapping out the “meh” pieces in your wardrobe for high-quality, soul-stirring ones that make you feel like a total vibe.

Step One: Audit Your Wardrobe - No Mercy Required

Open that wardrobe and ask one simple question: Does this make me feel good when I wear it?
If the answer’s no, it’s time to part ways. Life’s too short for itchy jumpers, stretched-out tees, and fast-fashion guilt.

Don’t think of it as throwing clothes away - think of it as making space for confidence to move back in!

Step Two: Choose Quality Over Clutter

You may be a Gen X woman like me ... you know quality when you feel it. You grew up in the era of Doc Martens, denim jackets that lasted forever, and statement accessories that actually meant something. That’s the vibe we’re bringing back.

Swap out the disposable pieces for timeless, well-made items that have texture, soul, and story. Think handwoven scarves that instantly pull an outfit together - soft, luxurious, and unique enough that people stop you to ask, “Where’d you get that?”

These aren’t just accessories; they’re conversation starters. They’re wearable art.

Step Three: Add Playfulness Back Into Your Style

Remember when getting dressed used to be fun? Bring that back. Try mixing in something unexpected, like a handwoven scrunchie from Threefold Designs
 - because yes, your scrunchie can be a fashion statement too!

A simple messy bun tied with a beautifully crafted scrunchie can make you feel pulled together (literally) and confident, even on your low-effort days.

Step Four: Dress for How You Want to Feel

Your wardrobe should cheer you on - not hold you back. When you wear things that reflect your creativity and individuality, it shows. You stand taller. You smile more. You start feeling like the person you actually are - not the one trying to fit into everyone else’s expectations.

So, go ahead: replace “good enough” with “hell yes.” Pick pieces that make your heart do a happy little dance.

Because the real “cool” isn’t about trends - it’s about showing up as yourself, with confidence, colour, and a touch of rebellion.

Ready to start your style revival?

Explore the handcrafted world of Threefold Designs - where every handwoven scarf, scrunchie, and textile piece is designed to help you feel good, look good, and get your cool back.